Don’t Yell At Me, You’re Not Going To Slow Me Down

Don’t yell at me because you’re not going to slow me down. No matter how much you raise your voice, I will not obey you.

I create my own path, and sometimes I’m wrong, but no matter how much you yell at me, you’re not going to slow me down. You just show your inability to be a kind person.

You know what they say: saying something stronger doesn’t mean you’re right. You only get less appreciation and more misunderstanding about it. 

It is said that words are the best vehicle for communication, but something else is said that we more easily forget: the more volume is raised, the more value is lost.

To find the golden mean, saying “thank you” and “be good” works much better. Expressing yourself sensibly, not shouting or trying to silence me.

Don’t yell at me, but talk to me. Listen to me, be patient and help me learn from my mistakes. Let’s both learn from each other. So we don’t lose ourselves to howling as if we were wolves. Because we are not wild animals, we are rational beings.

He who cries attacks with his words

Don’t yell at me, don’t attack me, don’t use careless words. Be aware that words can poison an entire relationship if they don’t pass through a reasonable filter. 

Be brave and talk. Think about how shouting at me isn’t going anywhere because I’m not going to play your game.

You don’t scare me with your strong voice because I’m not going to listen to you. Instead, I’m going to escape your howl just like you didn’t say a word. For if you want to talk to me, you have to respect me. 

And the key to respect comes from the ability to listen and accept that not everyone thinks the same way you do. And you have to start with me.

If you don’t know how to communicate, if you feel frustrated and anger comes out of your mouth without thinking, put yourself in my place and maybe you will understand me and not yell at me.

If you don’t know how, I’ll give you a few pieces of advice:  drama, stamping, “should” and “I’m always right” are not ways to build a good relationship.

And it’s useless to get caught up in the little things and then shout in full volume and detail at something that has bothered you.

Don’t yell at me in a few days. Talk to me, teach me, share with me what bothered you. Then we can find out if there is a solution to the problem or not. With our  problem, because it is for both of us…

And if we’re at a crossroads, it’s best for both of us to choose our own path instead of using a shout to express our pain.

Don’t yell at me because we don’t learn anything that way. Don’t yell at me if you value or love me at all.

If you want to teach respect, be a role model

Don’t talk to me about your kindness, don’t sell yourself as a victim or eternal sufferer. Show me what you want; not a role model, not a factor.

Remember that he who gives also gets back. Not him who demands not giving himself anything. Think about how we all do things wrong, we are not perfect. But we learn, change and create. Tell me about your fears, open your heart. Let me understand you so we can turn shouting into a polite request.

Let’s learn together, get to know each other. We are not trying to change each other, we are instead who we are, but with greater respect.

Don’t yell at me when you don’t like what I do because if you love me, you will accept me as I am. Don’t try to change me by shouting, you’re just causing annoyance that way.

Don’t yell at me because you’re not going to slow me down. No matter how much you shout, you’re not going to tell me where I’m going.